Turn on

Start getting turned on. Thisdoesn't mean you shouldtouch yourself --
unless you want to -- but itdoes mean that you should start getting in a
sexymentalspace. Close your eyes and think of yourmostillicitsexual
fantasy, or remember thelasttime it got really hot and heavybetween you
and yourlover.If it helps, you canlightly caress your body to get in the
mood. But you should savemost of that for your phone convo.

Start Talking Dirty

1Find your "dirty talk"voice. It should still sound like you -- but like a
sexier,slower-talking version ofyou. Don't use the samevoice you would
use to ask your honey howhis day went. Instead, talk a bitlower andmore
slowly -- you canevenlower yourvoice to a near-whisper if you want to.
Justmake sure it still sounds like you to an extent.2Give yourlover a few
compliments. You don'thave to sayanything X-rated rightaway. Just start
with a fewbasiccompliments. Tell yourspecialsomeone howmuch you've
missedhim, and howamazinghis body is. You caneven remindhim of the
lasttime you hadsex and how hot it was. Just start saying nice things to
yourlover to get into the mood. Here are some things you can say:"I've
been thinking about your tonedarms allday.""I miss you and your body so
much.""Ilove hearing yourvoice."