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    <title>Mariaのウラログ</title>
    <link>https://digicafe.jp/ura/member/4006872</link>
    <description>Mariaのウラログ</description>
    <pubDate>Mon, 13 Apr 2026 01:56:14 +0900</pubDate>
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      <title><![CDATA[【お題日記】秘密の恋って続くと思う？]]></title>
      <link>https://digicafe.jp/ura/diary/9634885</link>
      <description><![CDATA[I think unrequited love -- the kind where you just can't bring yourself to confess your feelings -- [...]]]></description>
      <content:encoded><![CDATA[I think unrequited love -- the kind where you just can't bring yourself to confess your feelings -- can go on and on. Honestly, I think it could last forever, as long as that person never does something that hurts me or shatters the image I have of them.
Then there's the kind of love where two people feel the same way about each other, but just can't tell the world -- like when there's a difference in social class or status, or when you've gone and fallen for someone who's supposed to be your enemy, like Romeo and Juliet. That kind of love, more often than not, ends in tragedy.
And I suppose what really belongs in this conversation is the topic of extramarital affairs. Though I'd also say that sometimes a purely physical relationship can carry on even without any real love or emotional attachment -- not that that's something I'd ever do, of course.]]></content:encoded>
      <pubDate>Mon, 13 Apr 2026 01:56:14 +0900</pubDate>
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      <title><![CDATA[【お題日記】「運命の人」はいると思う？]]></title>
      <link>https://digicafe.jp/ura/diary/9634174</link>
      <description><![CDATA[Yes i believe so.

If the person I'm currently looking for appears front of me, I believe that perso[...]]]></description>
      <content:encoded><![CDATA[Yes i believe so.

If the person I'm currently looking for appears front of me, I believe that person is my soulmate.
And it's also fate that what I desire may change.
If they no longer meet my changing desires, then it's fate that we part ways.]]></content:encoded>
      <pubDate>Sun, 12 Apr 2026 02:43:39 +0900</pubDate>
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      <title><![CDATA[【お題日記】大人の関係で“ルール”って必要？それとも自然に任せるべき？]]></title>
      <link>https://digicafe.jp/ura/diary/9633443</link>
      <description><![CDATA[what mean "自然に任せる" ?
Does that mean without contraception?
If you are married, that may be fine — bu[...]]]></description>
      <content:encoded><![CDATA[what mean "自然に任せる" ?
Does that mean without contraception?
If you are married, that may be fine — but given the phrase "大人の関係/'adult relationship'", I understand it to imply a connection outside of marriage. In that case, it should only be with a partner who can truly commit to taking responsibility if a pregnancy occurs.
Taking responsibility means guaranteeing the child's upbringing and education as a parent until they reach adulthood — covering cram school attendance, studying abroad, university enrollment, and even graduate school. If all of that can be guaranteed, then perhaps forgoing contraception is acceptable. But if it cannot, birth control is the bare minimum.
As for other rules: do not take what belongs to someone else.
If the other person is married, you should not pursue a relationship that monopolizes them or is premised on divorce.
If you yourself are married, you should not pursue a relationship that would require dissolving the partnership with your own partner.
A relationship conducted within these rules — that, I believe, is what truly deserves to be called an "大人の関係/'adult relationship'".]]></content:encoded>
      <pubDate>Sat, 11 Apr 2026 00:57:09 +0900</pubDate>
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      <title><![CDATA[【お題日記】恋愛で一番大事なのは「愛情・信頼・相性」どれ？]]></title>
      <link>https://digicafe.jp/ura/diary/9631087</link>
      <description><![CDATA[This subject is same as 3.4.2026

My answer is honesty]]></description>
      <content:encoded><![CDATA[This subject is same as 3.4.2026

My answer is honesty]]></content:encoded>
      <pubDate>Tue, 07 Apr 2026 21:45:35 +0900</pubDate>
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      <title><![CDATA[【お題日記】理想の恋人の条件は3つだけ挙げるなら？]]></title>
      <link>https://digicafe.jp/ura/diary/9629798</link>
      <description><![CDATA[1. Sincerity
2. Treat me like a gentleman
3. Being my forever Superman]]></description>
      <content:encoded><![CDATA[1. Sincerity
2. Treat me like a gentleman
3. Being my forever Superman]]></content:encoded>
      <pubDate>Mon, 06 Apr 2026 02:19:05 +0900</pubDate>
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      <title><![CDATA[【お題日記】友達から恋人になるのはアリ？ナシ？]]></title>
      <link>https://digicafe.jp/ura/diary/9628255</link>
      <description><![CDATA[OF cource if i feel sexuality to my friend]]></description>
      <content:encoded><![CDATA[OF cource if i feel sexuality to my friend]]></content:encoded>
      <pubDate>Sat, 04 Apr 2026 03:27:05 +0900</pubDate>
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      <title><![CDATA[【お題日記】恋愛で一番大事なのは何？（信頼・見た目・価値観など）]]></title>
      <link>https://digicafe.jp/ura/diary/9627478</link>
      <description><![CDATA[i think that's honesty]]></description>
      <content:encoded><![CDATA[i think that's honesty]]></content:encoded>
      <pubDate>Fri, 03 Apr 2026 02:47:20 +0900</pubDate>
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      <title><![CDATA[【お題日記】理想のデートはどんな1日？]]></title>
      <link>https://digicafe.jp/ura/diary/9626699</link>
      <description><![CDATA[午前：静かなスタートと街歩き
朝は少し遅めに待ち合わせをして、こだわりのあるカフェでブランチから始めます。

焼きたてのパンやコーヒーの香りに包まれながら、今日やりたいことをのんびり話す時間は贅沢なも[...]]]></description>
      <content:encoded><![CDATA[午前：静かなスタートと街歩き
朝は少し遅めに待ち合わせをして、こだわりのあるカフェでブランチから始めます。

焼きたてのパンやコーヒーの香りに包まれながら、今日やりたいことをのんびり話す時間は贅沢なものです。

その後は、洗練された街並みや公園を散歩。気になるショップにふらっと立ち寄ったり、美しい建築物を眺めたりしながら、目的を決めすぎずに歩くのがポイントです。

午後：少しのアクティブと知的な刺激
午後は少し移動して、ドライブを楽しみながら景色を楽しみます。

開放感のある道を走り、最新の車や美しいデザインのものを目にすると会話も弾みます。

目的地として、現代美術館やデザイン展へ。お互いの感性に触れる展示を鑑賞し、「あれが良かったね」と感想を共有するのは、心の距離がぐっと縮まる瞬間です。

夜：夜景と心地よい余韻
締めくくりは、街の灯りが見える夜景のきれいなレストランへ。

落ち着いた雰囲気の中で美味しい食事を楽しみ、一日の思い出を振り返ります。

食後は少しだけ夜の街を歩き、余韻に浸りながら「また次も楽しみだね」と自然に言えるような、穏やかな空気感で一日を終えるのが理想です。


The above is a response from Gemini]]></content:encoded>
      <pubDate>Thu, 02 Apr 2026 00:39:58 +0900</pubDate>
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      <title><![CDATA[【お題日記】お金と愛、どちらが大事？]]></title>
      <link>https://digicafe.jp/ura/diary/9625252</link>
      <description><![CDATA[りょうほうだいじ]]></description>
      <content:encoded><![CDATA[りょうほうだいじ]]></content:encoded>
      <pubDate>Tue, 31 Mar 2026 03:10:50 +0900</pubDate>
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      <title><![CDATA[あしあと帳]]></title>
      <link>https://digicafe.jp/ura/diary/9623636</link>
      <description><![CDATA[あしあと帳を作ってみました。
皆さんお気軽にコメントを残して下さい！]]></description>
      <content:encoded><![CDATA[あしあと帳を作ってみました。
皆さんお気軽にコメントを残して下さい！]]></content:encoded>
      <pubDate>Sun, 29 Mar 2026 00:51:13 +0900</pubDate>
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